Why so critical?!

As i am writing this i am also watching americas next top model. Yes i do DVR this show, i love the world of modeling and i one day hope to become an on and off model, I geuss you could call it a girl who models when she wants. But watching this makes me realize how critical the world can be on fashion. Yes wearing lolita usually means you dont care what other people think, but still, that wont stop people from saying things. Dirty looks, sneers, rude comments, pointing, and even laughing dont typically feel good, but we lolitas learn to look past these things to wear all the bows and ruffles. But what about the people that do care, and do take it personally, its tough. I actually do sometimes get offended by things, it just depends the extremeness to it. I understand people will point, thats an obvious factor, but when someone follows you down the road to take pictures and throw things at you (yes that has happened to me) it makes me want to curl into a feedle position and cry. A smart lolita once said, it is a very lonely fashion. Sometimes i wish i had someone i could tell all my lolita fantasies to, but no, i have to cry sometimes. But over the years, you come to learn that the world will never change, there will always be people to point and laugh at you, and you may not like it, but you cant do anything about it. and her are my points to this post:

#1-Lolita is just clothing, youd get made fun of worse if you whent outside naked, so dont fret, normal people even find themselves getting told their outfits are weird, even if it is just some jeans and a simple tee.

#2-Just always remember, wether their laughing with you, or at you, your entertaining. You making smiles and happiness, and even if that happiness is because thay have nothing better to do with their lives, oh well, laughter is laughter.

#3-You will always be you inside, so even if someone is throwing things at you, it doesnt change who you are. Without the ruffles your you, and with the ruffles your you.